Tuesday, September 29, 2015

7 Things You’d Only Understand If You Were Raised In Ada, Ohio.



7 Things You’d Only Understand If You Were Raised In Ada, Ohio.

Every small town has their quirks, but you don’t really know them unless you’ve lived there your whole life.

I was extremely excited when I first saw the links being shared on my Facebook page for an article about my hometown.  However, I was quickly disappointed.  Whoever wrote this could not be from Ada.  Not only was there some misinformation, but also, there was so much missing.  So, this is my list of the 7 things only those of us born and bred in Ada can truly appreciate.  Of course I couldn’t include everything, however, I think I hit some of the main things.

Disclaimer: No offense to ONU students, we love you…most of the time…and we know that you have enjoyed and or experienced many of these aspects of our small town. But remember, though we loan it to you for a few months every year, this place is our home and part of who we are and nobody can talk crap about our town but us.

1. There may not be much, but there’s pizza. 
Pizza has always been a staple in our town and we have ALWAYS had an array to choose from.  Currently we have at least the following: Padrone’s, East of Chicago, 3 Brothers (Ada owned woot woot), Norada Lanes, and Viva Maria’s—plus there’s gas station and bar pizza.  Of course there is absolutely no need to have so many pizza places in a town so small that it’s still considered a village but that has always been the Ada way.  Also, if you grew up in Ada, you know that McDonald’s is new and still kind of a novelty.  Instead, when you think of fast food restaurants and Ada, you’ll think of the good old days when Hardee’s was the center of your food universe.  Sure they never got your order right (ketchup only gosh darn it) but they had killer breakfast bowls and if you had the Hardee’s mug you got your coffee for 25 cents (my dad has still never found a true replacement).  Also, you’ll always remember the parking lot full of car wash fundraisers and vintage car shows—and the time that your brother swallowed the gold fish at one.  Ada natives still expect to see Hardee’s where Rite Aid now sits and they will always be a little disappointed that its gold star is gone. 

(Photo Credit: Google Search)



2. We have three bars, and one place that may count some day.
If you were raised in Ada you know that there are three bars and that each has a specific function.  Little Mexico is the not authentic Mexican Restaurant in town that has great breakfast, locals singing karaoke, and cheap drinks.  This is the place where you run into your old high school teachers and friend’s parents when you come back to town to visit.  The Beagle (cause nobody calls that place by its full name) is the college bar.  You can’t get in until you’re 21 and it feels like the forbidden fruit in town.  That is until you’ve been inside a few times.  The sticky floors and puking college students get on your nerves pretty quickly but you always come back for a hug from Pops.   Finally, John and Toni’s is the straight up townie bar.  If college kids find their way in there they are out the door fast, never to return again.  It’s only for a select few and you know if you’re one of them pretty quickly.  Some people might think that The Cask Room should be on this list, but if you’re from Ada you know that it hasn’t been around long enough for you to count it as anything but a passing fad.  Ada is known for its always-revolving storefronts and until something has stuck around for more than a few years we always keep it at arms length...Stromboli’s, Bella Rosa, the dance studio, the beanie baby store…it’s just not worth the heartache.
(Photo Credits: Google Search)


3. If life gives you a barrier…drive around it.
Trains are a nuisance but if you’ve lived in Ada all your life you know how to get around them.  Locals know that when a train is loading at the Grain Elevator we can make it to the next road over, weave around the gates, and be on our way with very little time lost.  Also, if you’ve lived in Ada your whole life you’ve probably gone all the way out into the country to avoid a train at least once.   We know that this isn’t very safe but we also know that a train may sit there backing up and moving forward for 30 minutes and we’ve got places to be!

(Photo Credit Heather M Scholl)


4. The Polar Bear Effect.
If you grew up in Ada you know that ONU has a strange effect on our small town.  Our population almost doubles in the fall as the students fill the dorms, condos, and rental houses and the town begins to come to life.  As a teen, life instantly gets more interesting.  There are new people to meet, flirt with, and lie to. If you were raised in Ada you probably lied about your age to an attractive college student at least once in your life.  It’s a rite of passage and a guilty pleasure for us townies.  ONU makes it possible for unrealistic things to become commonplace: entire football teams hang out at the local pool flirting with high school girls—making their entire summer, Men’s Cross Country Teams rescue a Damsel in Distress by pushing her car out of a snow bank, and there are keg parties that seem to rival any 90’s teen movie.  However, there does come a day when the novelty of ONU wears off.  We often don’t realize it has happened until we find ourselves muttering under our breath at the hordes of kids walking across the street, or when the boys on the ONU basketball team suddenly look like children instead of the men of your young dreams.  Maybe it’s the first time you complain about the loud kids down the street playing their music and hollering into the night.  Whenever it happens, you stop for a moment and realize you are now an adult and you can’t wait for the silence of the summer months.

(Photo Credit: Google Search)

5. Our school is tiny and we love it.
Growing up in Ada often means that the people you meet in your kindergarten class will be the same ones that you will walk across the stage with on graduation day.  And the girl who sat next to you at the blue table is probably still your best friend more than 20 years later.  We usually graduate with numbers less than 60.  We know every single person in our class and at least the three classes above and below.  And I mean we know them.  ALL.  We were in the band, choir, FFA, and played sports.  We didn’t misbehave in school because our teachers knew our parents personally.  We fought with our friends and we made up.  We dealt with life and death together.  We celebrated and cheered our Bulldogs on no matter how long it had been since we won a championship and we cried together when we lost one of our own.  We still remember our teachers and still call them Mr. or Mrs. We know that they loved us and sacrificed for us and we know that they helped shape who we are today.  We may have complained about our small town school but we also know that we wouldn’t have wanted it any other way.




(Photo Credits: Neisha Ulrey and Amy Miller)


6. The NFL Footballs are made here…by my mom.
We don’t have a passing pride in the footballs that you see being thrown on a Sunday afternoon by the greats we have an actual connection.  My mom checked that ball.  My brother designed that panel.  My cousin tied those laces.  We all have a connection to the factory that through sweat, blood, and leather produces the balls that are thrown by Brady and Manning.  We know that after the Conference Championship, as the final two teams are decided, the factory fills with people who will work all night to create the balls that will be shipped to the Super Bowl.  We know that it is our family members and neighbors that make it all possible.  We know that our little town is a part of something big.  We know that we are a part of history.

(Photo Credit: Google Search)


7. Swimming in fields of gold

Growing up in Ada you probably had one of two summer jobs (or both); working for a local farmer or at the swimming pool.  Whether you spent the summer months detasseling corn or telling little kids to stop running, you had a job and that meant money and power.  What did you do with that money?  You probably wasted it on gas so that you could drive from one end of town to the other, turn around and drive back again.  You didn’t always stop at every stop sign because you knew that if both cop cars were parked at the station you were free to break the rules.  Maybe you went into Taco Bell (remember when it had a Pizza Hut express inside?) and flirted with the kids from USV on a Friday night after the basketball game.  Maybe you went to the Midnight Swim and flirted with the Hardin Northern kids there.  Maybe you lay out on your best friends roof or hung out in their basement.  Maybe you went for a walk and bought some penny candy from Pepper’s or looked at the Precious Moments figurines at Gardner’s.  Maybe you sat in the garden at the Depot or fed the ducks while avoiding the evil black swans at ONU.  You might have gone to the park to watch a soccer game or swing.  Maybe you went to the ice cream place whose name you still don’t know or went into Four Seasons for a frozen Mountain Dew or to a movie at the theatre. You might have rode your bike or roller skated around the Green Monster or stopped into 302 after getting some Suter’s Sweet Corn.  Maybe you just sat on the porch and breathed in the cool air while chatting with friends.  Whatever you did, you usually remained in Ada: because as much as you complained about it, you loved that place.  And you still do.  You may have stayed there, chose to raise your family in the safe neighborhoods where you could let your kids play outside and run uptown.  If you left, you have probably found yourself comparing wherever you are to Ada and realizing that it comes up short.  Sure other places have malls and super centers and a few more culinary choices, but not everywhere has heart.  And if Ada has nothing else, it has heart…and a lot of trees.

(Photo Credit: RichM2007 Flickr)





Thursday, January 16, 2014

Date a Girl Who Reads

Hmmm....I like this way too much not to share.


Keep this in mind boys...



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Thursday, January 9, 2014

Tonight I Did...Well Something!

I may not have done it, you know "it", the life changing, end all, be all, best decision of my life thing, but I did do something!
I began a new Blog "Me and My Broken Brain" (check it out) and I'm super proud of myself! 
I know, I know. How am I ever gonna keep up with a third Blog when I spend so many hours on this one (insert sarcastic voice here)?! However, not only have I posted more blog posts this month than almost ever (combined and multiplied by three), but this one actually really means something to me. All of my writing is pretty personal, this blog reveals the intimate parts of me or will and my other is dedicated to the little loves of my life, but the journey through my seizure disorder has been the center of it all. So, I'm going to explore it, open it up, and try it out for all of the world (or the four friends that see this and actually read it...and my mom of course). 
I'm hoping this will lead to something. 
Maybe it will help me relieve some of the stress, maybe it'll help someone else understand their disorder, maybe it'll become a book, maybe I'm dreaming. 
No matter what, it's a step. 
It's something.
Tonight I did something and I'm pretty happy about it.

Friday, January 3, 2014

New Year, New Resolutions

Happy New Year! 

2013 was great in a million ways and horrible in a million more.
I had my first officially old birthday, I still live with my parents, I'm back in school (Grad school this time), I am working part time barely making any money, I did not lose that jobless/student loan debt/where am I going in this world 25lbs (much worse than the freshman 15) and my writing has practically stalled. 
Enter 2014.
That's all gonna change in the next 365 days. 
Or so I hope.
I've got big plans for this new year, and a somewhat solid plan to make them happen. Let's hope! 

Good luck to you and your new year!


Monday, August 19, 2013

The Darkest Cave

We just want love! 
It used to seem like a given, like as a human it was a right, a step in the process of living. 
But it seems like the older we get the more we realize we were tricked, lied to. Love isn't a part of the deal, it's a secret passageway into a cave. 
And it's getting dark and cold and lonely down here. 
Tonight I want change.
Tonight I want out.
Tonight I want light.
Tonight I'll say it.

Tuesday, June 11, 2013

Horror Find Me

I need to write something scary. Horrifying.
Maybe I should describe myself without makeup. I know it scares me every morning.
That's the problem with assignments, I can't ever follow them. My body, or maybe my mind, physically rejects them.
Perhaps the bigger problem is that I have a different opinion of what scary is. 
For example, 
Creepy guy with a big gun? Meh. It happens.
Girl with back fat hanging out? Scarred for life.
Besides I'd probably be the girl that fell in love with her abductor, I'd see some Heathcliff-esque quality and find him irresistible. (I may have a few problems, we'll dig into that another day.) Besides, what's worse than a demonic psychopath? My last couple of ex boyfriends.
So anyway, back to this horror story I need to write.
I'll probably go for a sexy woman. I've always loved the villainess who has a thing for the superhero, and of course the superheroes always return those inappropriate sexual feelings, think Poison Ivy and Batman.
Hmmm...maybe I can make this work.
I'll let you know!

Goodnight.

Sunday, June 9, 2013

Two Years

That sad, awful, truest of truths is that time can change everything and nothing at all.
I am older and filled with a need to follow my dreams but held back by the realities of life. I need a job, the big kid kind. Which I found, at a lovely place filled with lovely people, that makes me want to scream in pain. It is not the jobs fault, it is my searching soul telling to get out there and find my true path. Sadly, that path does not come with money, insurance, or security. The path I want to follow is a creative one. It is dangerous, because it is unknown and student loans are creeping around every corner demanding payment to pass. 
Frankly, it sucks. 
However, I have decided to attempt a multitasking of life. I will pursue my creative path, wherever it may take me, but I will keep the big kid job in the real world until I find myself secure enough to let go. 
Or I may just marry a doctor. Ha. If it was only that easy! 

So, what should you expect from this log? I suppose it will be filled with my thoughts, my silly struggles, my ridiculous ranting, and the occasional jokes. It may be for no one but me, but I suppose that's a wild enough audience. If you do stop by, I hope you enjoy and respond with opinions, advice, and maybe a little laugh of your own. 
Thanks for taking me back, I will do my best not to let you down. 

Goodnight.