Laughter, Love, and Lollipops

I have been blessed with three gorgeous nieces and one adorable nephew and two days ago found out a fourth niece will be joining the bunch in January.  I love these babies so much and as time passes it is so awesome to see the little people they are becoming.  Each is so unique and completely their own person already.  I am torn between wanting to freeze them at their adorable ages right now and keeping them toddlers forever and with wanting to continue to watch them grow.

When I think about these beautiful little girls I realize I was once that innocent.  My days had also been filled with laughter, love and lollipops and all I had needed in the world was a pretty dress or a doll to bring me happiness.  Suddenly, a terrible thought comes into my head, these babies are going to grow up and that innocence will be lost.  It makes me a bit sick to think that they are living in this same world where I have felt so much pain.  I instantly want to lock all of them up in a safe place and let them live a naive life of perfection.

Obviously this can't happen but man, it'd be nice.  So now I'm trying to think of a more reasonable tactic for saving these precious souls from the horrors of this world.

First, there are the girls.  What heartache's lay in front of them and how in heaven can I help prepare them if I've failed so miserably myself?  I know they have to learn on their own and I know there will be tears but I'm going to find a way to make it easier on them.  I've considered threatening any mean girl or game playing boy but I'm not sure that's really allowed.  Plus, I want them to know love and even more I want them to know passion.  I want them to see all the good and in this life a lot of bad has to come along with it.  Ugh!

Then there is my nephew.  He's the only boy surrounded by a sea of women and at only eighteen months old he's already a heart breaker.  He is adorable and strong and plays games like you wouldn't believe.  He's going to have girls in love with him left and right.  Now as his aunt I'm already under his spell and think he can do no wrong...well except for this need to bite people...but you know what I mean.  However, as a women I keep thinking, this boy is gonna be trouble.  I want to teach him to use his charm for good and not evil.  In a world where I've been charmed into a broken heart more than once I keep wondering if it's even possible.

So the mission I have placed on myself for the next few years (hopefully it won't take that long so I'm prepared whenever I am needed) is to figure out a way to explain life, love, friendships, and family to all of these tiny human beings so that they can avoid so many of the pitfalls I've faced but also experience the joys that are possible.  Love is an amazing blessing that I want each of them to experience to the fullest, and though heartbreak is necessary to truly appreciate love, I'd sure like to spare them some of this pain.

I need those giggles to keep me going.